Plight of the little boys brainwashed into being ISIS suicide bombers
Published by The Mail on Sunday (3rd March, 2019)
The brutal jihadis whipped his hands with cables to force the terrified child and his trembling brother to join the other young boys being taken away in buses.
Later, a man with a long black beard spoke to them. ‘He told me there is no point in being scared because we have sold your family,’ recalled Milad. ‘When he told me that, I cried.’
I met this sweet-natured boy, now probably 11 years old, in a Yazidi safe house. The previous day Milad and a boy called Farwaz had finally escaped the clutches of IS and ended a nightmare of almost five years.
They escaped the terror group’s last pocket of resistance in Baghouz – into the arms of the Western-backed Kurdish forces crushing the last of an IS ‘caliphate’ once the size of Britain.
Milad told me his family was safe. Tragically, he did not know yet that his father had been murdered and his mother was missing after almost certainly being sold into sexual slavery, like thousands more Yazidi women and girls as young as ten.
But at least he could speak, despite his confusion, as he began to adjust after years of barbarism and brainwashing following IS attempts to turn him into one of the feared ‘cubs of the caliphate’, the army of suicide-attack teenagers.
Farwaz, by contrast, could not talk as he sat cross-legged. He stared at the ground with a haunted look in his sunken eyes, having learned the agonising truth about his own family’s murder.
He spoke just five words in all the hours we sat together. ‘The Daesh [IS] flag is horrible,’ he mumbled.
It was gut-wrenching to see the trauma of these abused boys, who had joined a group of 11 others aged seven to 15 who had also escaped IS thugs two days earlier.
They were among almost 6,500 Yazidis kidnapped by the jihadis, who despise their gentle, ancient faith. Almost half are still missing – and inevitably, much of the world’s outrage has focused on the horrific sexual abuse of women and girls.
Yet the Yazidi activists offering Milad and Farwaz solace had no doubt that these boys, like many of the 600 others passing through the safe house before them, had been forcibly converted to the Islamists’ creed and trained to kill.
‘They will have learned how to use weapons. I’m sure they know how to shoot very well,’ said Mahmoud Rasho, a community leader whose phone pinged repeatedly with messages from families looking for loved ones.
‘Then Rasho gestured towards a ten-year-old boy I had met earlier. ‘Give the car keys to Mazan and he would drive better than any adult,’ he said.
When I asked why, the answer was chilling. Mazan had been taught to drive a vehicle loaded with explosives on a suicide mission – something difficult to believe when looking at the child standing near by in a hoodie and jeans.
It was equally disturbing to witness the grip IS still held on these terrified boys. One after the other – until Milad opened up a little and admitted firing guns – they claimed they had been treated well and had not had military training.
This was a shocking illustration of Stockholm Syndrome, when kidnap victims develop a bond with their captors – and one more example of the intense fear inspired by the savagery of IS fanatics.
Those helping these indoctrinated boys said they had heard them talking among themselves at night, agreeing not to admit to anything for fear IS might return and punish them. Milad confirmed this to me.
Rasho said: ‘The IS policy was to plant fear in their minds so it is difficult for the boys to recover. All those over four were taken from their families, isolated in well-guarded places and turned into fighters.’
Clearly these are deeply distressed children, some clinging to their imposed faith and calling their Yazidi protectors ‘infidels’.
Zuhour Kado, 58, the maternal figure running the house, said the children screamed in their sleep and some woke up vomiting.
‘When they first get here I hug them, kiss them, and then I bathe them,’ she said. ‘But sometimes their bodies have so many wounds it is hard to wash them.’
Many younger survivors have no memory of their homes or native Kurdish tongue after being kidnapped in 2014 when IS swept through Iraq’s Yazidi regions.
They can be so confused that it takes a week for them even to recall basic family details.
Saddam, 15, the oldest in the rescued group, could at least remember growing up in Iraq’s Sinjar region. ‘I remember my father going to work and going to school,’ he said. His family was caught by IS as they attempted to flee and taken to Tal Afar.
‘There were many families there. We were asked if we were willing to convert to Islam and said yes, because those who said no were being killed.’
Later, the men, women and boys were separated. ‘Daesh called all the men to the mosque, including my father and uncle,’ he said. ‘I’ve never seen my father since. I have heard he was killed. I waved at him as he left – it breaks my heart to think of this moment.’
Milad could not remember his village of Solakh, in Iraq, but recalled being separated later from his own family in Mosul. ‘We were reluctant to leave our mothers so they [IS] beat us – it was unbearable pain.’
Then he admitted: ‘They taught us to shoot,’ before claiming they were just toy guns. He added: ‘But I was not a good shot and kept missing. They used to tell us that you should know how to shoot.’
Milad said he spent his last two years of captivity in Baghouz with a senior IS fighter and his brother.
‘His own two children got boots but there was nothing for us,’ he said. ‘But he never hugged them – he said it was haram [sinful] to kiss his children.’
No doubt these boys will start to reveal the full truth as they slowly recover.
The Iraqi government estimates about 2,000 children have been brainwashed by IS ideology. Some receive counselling to help them recover from being abused, beaten, taken from families, trained in militancy and often orphaned.
Yet these are the fortunate ones – many others died after being forced into fighting for the jihadis as their caliphate crumbled.
Others have reportedly been used as human shields to prevent air strikes and Kurdish attacks.
Experts warn that if the mental stresses of such child victims are not treated, they could become a security threat.
‘Some people say it’s like a ticking timebomb,’ said Kani Areef, of SEED Foundation, a specialist charity in the region, earlier this year. ‘You don’t know when it will blow.’